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Therapist

Grief-Tender

Group Facilitator

We are all in a great Remembering. Of who we are. What we’ve lost. What we carry. And what we’re becoming.

Amanda’s Credentials, Experience and Approach

I’m Amanda Feaver (she/her), a licensed therapist with over 14 years of experience walking with people through life’s most tender thresholds—grief, trauma, and relationship changes.

I support women and couples who are navigating transition and transformation. Whether you’re grieving a loss, leaving a relationship, untangling a long-held story, or simply feeling the quiet ache of something that no longer fits, I help you make space for what’s ending and find the path toward what’s next.

My work weaves together the psychological, the spiritual, and the ecological.

I often draw from the wisdom of myth and the natural world to illuminate the cycles of death and rebirth that live inside us. This is especially meaningful in my grief support for people, women’s gatherings, and therapy intensives focused on personal transformation.

This is the deep work. Grief. Renewal. Wildness. Trust.

The kind of transformation that doesn’t happen all at once, but through listening, feeling, and allowing.

My Approach

I offer:

  • Individual therapy for women in Oregon and Washington

  • Couples therapy for those wanting to repair and reconnect with their partner, or wanting to leave the relationship with deep kindness.

  • Grief and renewal groups for women in life transition

  • Seasonal women’s circles rooted in myth, nature, and archetypal wisdom

  • Specialized support for grief, trauma reprocessing, and relationship dissatisfaction

Grief is not a detour from life, but a path into deeper meaning. And healing becomes more powerful when it's done in community.

My clients describe me as grounded, warm, and intuitive. In group settings, I’m a skilled facilitator—able to hold strong containers for shared transformation. There’s a special kind of magic that happens in these circles: when we gather in honesty, something sacred gets stirred. We remember who we are. We soften. We shed. We grow.

Many people tell me that this work reshaped the trajectory of their lives. I don't take that lightly.

I live in Portland, Oregon, on Chinook land, where I tend a small regenerative garden and practice reciprocal relationship with the Earth. I believe our healing and the Earth’s healing are inextricably interconnected.

If you're looking for a Portland-based therapist who offers grief and relational support, as well as group therapy or gatherings for women, or if you're curious about what it means to navigate grief and emerge into renewal, you're in the right place.

Threads of My Work

  • Credentials + Influences

    Licensed Therapist (Oregon & Washington) With over 14 years of experience supporting individuals, couples, and groups

    Certified in PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy)

    Certified in ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy)

    Death-doula training with EOLPC (End of Life Psychadelic Care)

    Rooted in trauma-informed care, relational presence, and depth-oriented healing

    A seasoned grief-tender and compassionate guide through life’s relational and spiritual terrain

    Drawing from wisdom traditions, Earth’s ecosystems, myth, and the natural cycles of life

  • A Few Things I Love:

    Guiding group experiences where something real can emerge

    Watching women come alive to their own intuition and presence

    Sitting with grief and letting it show us the way

    Mythology, poetry, seasons, silence, and Wild places

    Trusting the collective field to hold more than we can carry alone

    The capacity humans have to heal and repair

    Our deep Belonging with each other and the Earth

  • What Inspires Me

    Regeneration is always at work—beneath the surface, within the soil, in the unseen spaces. Darkness is the place where life begins.


    The Wisdom we seek already lives within us and around us, carried by the land, the body, and the breath.
    Death is not the end, but a sacred passage.
    Rebirth and Renewal are not just possible—they are the promise stitched into every ending.
    This is the unending rhythm of the Earth, and we belong to this rhythm.

You are welcome here.

Whether you work with me individually, as a couple, or through a gathering or retreat, I’ll meet you where you are—with warmth, curiosity, and trust in your process.

Grief is not a problem to fix, but a sacred part of being alive. Transformation is not only possible, it is our birthright. And you already carry access to the wisdom you’re seeking—we just need to create the right space to hear it.

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