Smiling woman standing in front of bamboo

We are all in a great Remembering. Of who we are. What we’ve lost. What we carry. And what we’re becoming.

Therapist, Grief-Tender, Group Facilitator

I’m Amanda Feaver (she/her), a licensed therapist with over 14 years of experience walking with people through life’s most tender thresholds—grief, trauma, and relationship changes.

I support women and couples who are navigating transition and transformation. Whether you’re grieving a loss, leaving a relationship, untangling a long-held story, or simply feeling the quiet ache of something that no longer fits, I help you make space for what’s ending and find the path toward what’s next.

My work weaves together the psychological, the spiritual, and the ecological.

I often draw on the wisdom of myth and the natural world to illuminate the cycles of death and rebirth that reside within us.

This is the deep work. Grief. Renewal. Wildness. Trust.

The transformation of grief and renewal doesn’t happen all at once, but over time, through listening, feeling, and allowing.

My Approach

I offer:

  • Individual therapy for women in Oregon and Washington

  • Couples therapy for those wanting to repair and reconnect with their partner, or wanting to leave the relationship with wisdom and kindness.

  • Groups and Gatherings for women in life transition

  • Seasonal women’s circles rooted in myth, nature, and archetypal wisdom

  • Specialized support for grief, trauma reprocessing, and relationship dissatisfaction

Grief is an initiatory experience that can lead us into new ways of being…and honoring grief becomes more powerful when it's done in community.

My clients describe me as grounded, warm, and intuitive. In group settings, I’m a skilled facilitator—able to hold strong containers for shared transformation. There’s a special kind of magic that happens in these circles: when we gather in honesty, something sacred gets stirred. We remember who we are. We soften. We shed. We shift.

Many people tell me that this work reshaped the trajectory of their lives. I don't take that lightly.

I live in Portland, Oregon, on Chinook land, where I tend a small regenerative garden and learn from the Earth about reciprocal relationship. I believe our healing and the Earth’s healing are inextricably interconnected.

If you're looking for a Portland-based therapist who offers grief and relational support, as well as group therapy or gatherings for women, or if you're curious about navigating grief and emerging into renewal, you're in the right place.

Threads of My Work

  • Credentials + Influences

    Licensed Therapist (Oregon & Washington) With over 14 years of experience supporting individuals, couples, and groups

    Certified in PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy)

    Certified in ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy)

    Death-doula training with EOLPC (End of Life Psychadelic Care)

    Rooted in trauma-informed care, relational presence, and depth-oriented healing

    A seasoned grief-tender and compassionate guide through life’s relational and spiritual terrain

    Drawing from wisdom traditions, Earth’s ecosystems, myth, and the natural cycles of life

  • A Few Things I Love:

    Facilitating group experiences where transformation can emerge

    Watching women come alive to their own intuition and presence

    Sitting with grief and letting it show us the way

    Poetry, seasons, silence, and Wild places

    Trusting the collective field to hold more than we can carry alone

    The capacity humans have to heal and repair

    Our deep Belonging with each other and the Earth

  • What Inspires Me

    Regeneration is always at work—beneath the surface, within the soil, in the unseen spaces. Darkness is the place where life begins.


    The Wisdom we seek already lives within us and around us, carried by the land, the body, and the breath.
    Death is a sacred passage.
    Rebirth and Renewal are not just possible—they are the promise stitched into everything.
    This is the unending rhythm of the Earth, and we belong to this rhythm.

You are welcome here.

Whether you work with me individually, as a couple, or through a gathering or retreat, we’ll meet you where you are—with warmth, curiosity, and trust in your process.

Grief is not a problem to fix, but a sacred part of being alive. And transformation is our birthright. You already have access to the wisdom you’re seeking—we just need to create the right space to hear it.

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